I am at college but continue not to attend classes and no one notices. In real life, I usually work really hard, studying and trying to get good grades. so this is out of character for me. my sister whom i a estranged from, is in the same college and is doing much better than me and of course, she is not paying attention to me. This went on for the entire 4 years, and it was always nagging at me, but I didn't do anything about it. I tried to meet with the college advisors but can never get hold fo them. In the end, after many dreams, I studied for a very short time and passed the exam, which gave me my diploma.
Your dream appears to be rich with symbolism and may reflect several aspects of your conscious and subconscious mind. Let’s break down some key elements:
College and Classes: College often represents personal growth, knowledge acquisition, and life transitions. Your situation of not attending classes but still progressing reflects feelings of disengagement or ambivalence in your waking life. It may symbolize a fear of not living up to your own expectations or the expectations of others.
Estranged Sister: The presence of your sister, with whom you have a complicated relationship, may indicate feelings of competition, comparison, or unresolved issues. Her success in the dream could represent your own insecurities or feelings of inadequacy, especially since she is thriving while you feel left behind.
Effort vs. Outcome: The struggle to meet with college advisors could symbolize feelings of helplessness or frustration in seeking guidance or support in your waking life. Your eventual success (passing the exam) after minimal study suggests that you may be undervaluing your abilities or potential, illustrating a conflict between your self-perception and your actual capabilities.
Nagging Feelings: The nagging sense of not addressing your issues reflects a common theme of procrastination or avoiding responsibility. This may suggest that there are aspects of your life, perhaps related to your studies, personal growth, or relationships, that you know need attention but feel unable to tackle.
Symbol of Achievement: Successfully receiving your diploma, despite the struggle, could indicate a desire for validation and a recognition that you can achieve success even when the path is not straightforward. It may also symbolize a subconscious reassurance that even in the midst of difficulties, you can still reach your goals.
Overall, this dream may encourage you to explore areas in your life where you feel disconnected, to confront unresolved feelings about your sister, and to recognize and embrace your potential despite self-doubt. It could be urging you to be more proactive in your personal and academic pursuits while acknowledging that success doesn’t always require adherence to rigid standards or expectations. Consider reflecting on these themes in your waking life and how you might address them.